Peaceful Scenario

I’ve learned that you have to deal with the issues that are holding you back from reaching your full potential. Life will keep giving you the same test over and over and over again until you pass. Instead of chasing after a scenario that you think will make you happy, learn to be happy with your current situation. For example, if you are single and want to be in the relationship because you think that being in a relationship will make you happy…pause. Reflect on why you think you need a relationship to be happy? Do you feel more complete in a relationship? Do you feel validated in a relationship?  What does being a relationship look like for you? Why have your relationships failed in the past? Then pause again. Looking outward for happiness is not where you want to be, instead look within for your answers and completeness. Work on your scenario…whatever the scenario it is you’re facing. When you stop grabbing at what you want, and you truly love and accept the moment you’re in, that’s when life will seemingly hand you the once desire of your heart; if it doesn’t then there must be a better plan and you’re already at peace: win win. It’s not always easy to find happiness and love in a situation you want to change so badly, but it’s necessary. You can do it; you can change, improve, grow and come up higher.